5 Minutes for Books: Matrimony

by Jennifer Donovan

Whenever I go a while without reading fiction (pushing it aside for memoir generally), I end up asking myself what I was thinking. Especially when I read beautifully-written literary fiction like Joshua Henkin’s Matrimony.

I would suspect that those who are lukewarm about this book do not generally enjoy character-driven literary fiction. I would not recommend this book to fans of thrillers or suspenseful who-done-its, but if you like the slower pace and thoughtful style of literary fiction, Matrimony won’t disappoint.

But this is not simply a character novel. It is character-driven, but there is also a definite plot. We care about what happens to the characters, and the author successfully tells the story of Mia and Julian, Carter, and even the ancillary characters. The ends are tied up, but not so neatly that it doesn’t seem real.

This book is about real-life. We follow a real marriage (several of them actually), and through that experience the themes of friendship, aging, loss, forgiveness, and identity, which all come into play as we live out our own marriages.

This novel, just like real-life, doesn’t always contain a lot of drama. Good things happen, bad things happen, and through it all life goes on. That said, it’s not so real that it’s depressing. A friend of mine who prefers sit-coms to reality television or drama often quips, “My life is real enough.” Fiction should transport us to another world, and this book does that. The characters of Mia, Julian, Carter as well as the minor characters like Julian’s parents and Mia’s family and professor Wainwright quickly enter the reader’s subconscious, which drives you to read page after page wondering how it will turn out.

Another feature that adds to my enjoyment of a novel is a strong setting, and this one delivers by incorporating two characters: New York City and the distinct feel of a college town.

Read more about the book and the author at joshuahenkin.com. Read a related guest post about book groups from the author at 5 Minutes for Books.

Would you like to win a personally autographed copy? Leave a comment here. We’ll announce the winner in December 15′s column.

This contest is open to anyone in the world! Due to legal restrictions, this promotion is not available in Arizona or Quebec. Please see our site’s Terms and Conditions of Use for a complete list of our Contest and Giveaway Rules.

The winners of Too Many Toys are #101 Diane S., #165 Jayne, #65 Maja.



Email Author    |    Website About Jennifer Donovan

Jennifer Donovan has been a part of the 5 Minutes for Mom team since 2007. She writes product reviews, covers events, and manages the 5 Minutes for Books weekly column and website. She lives in Houston and blogs at Snapshot about life with her family.

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I would definitely love to win a personally autographed copy of this novel. It sounds like a great read and I really hope I will get the chance to read it by winning it. This is a great giveaway. Thanks.

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i love to read and this sounds good.

109 Deborah R December 14, 2008 at 10:53 am

Thanks for posting such a clear review – I prefer books that reflect real life, so “Matrimony” should be something I’ll really enjoy.

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What a great book for me. I’ve been married for over 25 years and continue to learn new things.

119 Renee We December 14, 2008 at 5:26 pm

I have enough of choas, twisted plots and mysteries for a while so this Matrimony story may have a calming effect.

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I would love to read this. Thanks for the giveaway!

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Sounds like a good read. Thanks so much!

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