January 7, 2008
How Strong Women Pray
With each new beginning, be it the new school year when I have another chance to create a system that works for me, or the flip of the calendar, my spiritual life is always a key area of scrutiny. How can I improve? How can I get closer to God? How will I be able to do that?
In How Strong Women Pray Bonnie St. John (former paraolympic medalist, White House staffer, and Rhodes Scholar) tackles the issue of prayer–one area in which I always feel that I am lacking. She clearly explains why we often stumble through our prayer lives (p. xiii):
Conversations about prayer are rare. People can go to church together every day and never talk about how they pray. Husbands and wives can pray separately for a lifetime and never share the experience. Even in a prayer group, most people talk about what they are praying about, not how they actually pray.
In the pages of this book St. John shares her own story–personal and professional successes and failures, the hurt of abuse, and her spiritual journey. She also lets 25 women share how prayer has impacted their lives, but more than that, they simplify and demystify the experience by sharing how they pray. I enjoyed reading her story and the profiles of the other strong women who acknowledge the importance of prayer. I found this book practically helpful in the area of prayer, encouraging, funny, touching and inspiring. Here are some examples from a few of the women profiled:
“I always feel that I should have a regular prayer routine, but I don’t. I usually talk to God about three times a day.” Heather Whitestone McCallum, former Miss America
Olympic medalist Vonetta Flowers: Today my husband and I get up before the kids and pray before the day gets started. I go downstairs in the basement and sit on a
comfortable couch with my eyes open.
Amy Domini, CEO of a company which uses investments to build a better world says, “I always pray last thing before I go to sleep. Sometimes I get on my knees. Mostly, I don’t.”
Marilyn McCoo, speaking of her marriage, shares “The Lord gave me the patience. Before I was praying, I tried to handle it all through arguing. Prayer worked much better than arguing. It helped me tremendously. I learned not to take matters in my own hands.”
There are discussion questions included, which would make this book perfect for a book club or small group Bible study.
If you’d like to win a copy, please leave a comment on this post, and check out the New Habits in the New Year guidelines at this main post.
Come back on January 9 to see if you have won. Please be sure that the email address that you enter with is one that you check regularly, and also check your spam folder when the winners are announced if you see your name.

Thank you for all your great comments on your favorite reads of 2007. I really enjoyed reading them. The winner of one (or more) surprise books from my stash is Melissa Markham. You should have an email from me requesting your address.

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358 Comments on How Strong Women Pray »
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#4 - Wendy @ 12:52 am
Prayer is an area I definitely want to focus on and improve this year. I’ve read several books on it, but this one sounds like it has the perspective I can relate to and benefit from. Thanks!
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#6 - Krista @ 1:01 am
This would be nice. I’d like to do the study on it with some of my friends.
#7 - Cindi Hoppes @ 1:25 am
Sounds like a powerful book. My prayer-life need this book! I know I am lacking in powerful prayer! The fact that it has a study guide/question is super. Please put me in the drawing for you book giveaway.
Thanks so much, Cindi
#8 - Miscellany Mom @ 1:27 am
could always use more help with prayer!
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Please enter me. Thanks!
#10 - Stacey @ Happy Are We @ 1:48 am
I love the title of the book! Our family has discovered that no day is complete if it doesn’t begin and end in prayer. We have also discovered how fun it is to listen to each other pray - we all have a different approach, and you can always hear our personal concerns come out when we have family prayer. As a final note…you find it a lot harder to stay grumpy with someone you’ve just knelt in prayer with! (a big plus when you have so many siblings!)
#11 - America @ 2:13 am
Oh yep, we are starting a new group and would love to share this.
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#15 - Lesha @ 4:04 am
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Do strong women prey on weak men?
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#29 - kellie sutton @ 7:36 am
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#99 - Jessica Anderson @ 1:01 pm
I re-learned prayer when I was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer. While I have made the leap to faith - I still need a lot of fine tuning.
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#105 - Betty Barrett @ 1:28 pm
I pray each day…usually by the time my feet touch the floor I have ask for protection over our family and friends all over the globe and from there the conversation continues throughout the day. I would love to pray more mindfully, more earnestly…to slow down and really focus on the power I am addressing.
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Prayer seems to be the weakest point for me. I just get so busy that it is easy to ignore. So I would love this book!
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#118 - Jane Squires @ 3:16 pm
I would like to win this book. I know since I’ve had surgery and met so many nice authors who have prayed with me and encouraged me when no one at my church even asks how I am doing, it has been such a blessing. I am even a leader in the church.
Yet it has been authors who have been there while I have been shut in to encourage and uplift me and pray with me. God Bless them all.
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Praying is good.
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lol to all
#122 - Virginia Michalak @ 3:37 pm
I just got baptized 2 months ago. I would love to win this book. I need all of the help I can get.
#123 - kathy @ 3:58 pm
Prayer is so imporant! Thank you for this great contest….
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Boy do I need help there!
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#128 - Sara @ 4:12 pm
Just today in the car I was thinking how I need to be praying more and how that will look in my life. This would be a great booster book.
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Count me in!!!
#130 - Amy @ 4:28 pm
I would love to have this book! I have rededicated my prayer life in ‘08.
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#135 - Lisa - The Scrap Princess @ 4:43 pm
Awesome book - I have added this to my books to read in 2008!
#136 - Tia @ 4:51 pm
This book is a must read; we all could use prayer in our lives.
#137 - jenna @ 5:09 pm
I’d love to win this. You always have great books to give away.
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HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE
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my grandmother would love this
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Count me in!!!
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beautiful gift
#142 - mama4jc @ 5:46 pm
What a thought-provoking giveaway! Hubby and I have been talking about something similar recently.
#143 - Michelle S @ 5:53 pm
I would love to win this book! One of my New Year’s resolutions is to deepen my spiritual walk with the Lord by quiet time, prayer & Scripture Memorization, this would really be helpful! Thanks.
#144 - Melody from ~ Pennies In My Pocket ~ @ 6:03 pm
I would love to win this. Great giveaway!
#145 - jesy @ 6:06 pm
We ALL could use the prayers
#146 - taryn @ 6:09 pm
I’d love this book!
#147 - Sarah @ 6:09 pm
Strong women pray for things besides husbands.
#148 - Cindi Aylor @ 6:10 pm
My prayer life needs a boost. Count me in.
#149 - Amber @ 6:16 pm
Awesome!!! Just what I need right now - I know for sure I am feeling God’s pull to deepen my spiritual life. Thanks for the wonderful recommendation!
#150 - Kreda Thomas @ 6:19 pm
I would love to win this. I have been going through a lot and my faith has been tested. This would be excellent!!
#151 - JONI CHADWELL @ 6:24 pm
this would be great
#152 - Erin @ 6:26 pm
With 2 little ones around I can use all the advice I can get.
#153 - Shannon H @ 6:38 pm
That’s so cool, I randomly gave this book to my sis for Xmas. I’d love a copy!
#154 - Kim Statzer @ 6:56 pm
This is my number one goal for the new year. I’d love to read this book.
#155 - Linda Moeller @ 7:00 pm
I’d love it!
#156 - Kathy Scott @ 7:02 pm
Please and thank you.
#157 - risanjax @ 7:07 pm
Count me in too!
#158 - Pamela White @ 7:13 pm
This would be great for my group
#159 - DianeL @ 7:14 pm
Would luv to have this book.
#160 - Linda Howard @ 7:16 pm
I would love to read this book.
#161 - Karen Ruth @ 7:22 pm
Prayer starts and ends each day for me and thus, I would love to have this book.
#162 - Rachel @ 7:26 pm
Add me! I would love to have this on my “spiritual retreat” to cancun at the end of the month.
#163 - Christine @ 7:26 pm
Love to read it…maybe it will help me want to live again
#164 - Kathy Bruins @ 7:30 pm
I would love to read this book. I lead a prayer ministry, so I would be very interested.
#165 - Kathy Bruins @ 7:30 pm
I would love to read it.
#166 - Jessi N @ 7:32 pm
I would love to read about this. It just might help me a little too.
#167 - Tanya @ 7:48 pm
I could use this book.
#168 - Bree @ 7:50 pm
This would be a great read!
#169 - Samantha Pruitt @ 7:50 pm
sounds like a good read
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I am very interested in this book. Would love to win it.
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i’d love to win this!
#172 - Candie @ 7:56 pm
I need this because often I do not think of myself as a strong woman.
#173 - Christi @ 8:11 pm
my spiritual life is an area that I am really trying to improve this year! This book would fit right in!!
#174 - pawn @ 8:13 pm
I can use all the help I can get!
#175 - Nikki @ 8:20 pm
I gotta read this book!
#176 - Catherine copeland @ 8:24 pm
I have already commited to engaging in bible study and I think this book about prayer woud help me in my spiritual quest
#177 - Peggy Miller @ 9:02 pm
Pray, Pray, Pray
#178 - Sheila at Dodging Raindrops @ 9:02 pm
Sounds like a book I need!
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count me in
#180 - Jenny M @ 9:40 pm
We’d love to win- Im in a bible study and wer’e looking for books on prayer.
#181 - Beth@sportsmomma @ 9:42 pm
this looks like such a good book-and exactly what I need!!
#182 - Jenifer @ 9:44 pm
Looks like a great life changing book. Please add me to the drawing
#183 - Patricia S @ 10:02 pm
What a wonderful giveaway,
#184 - Shaun Wallner @ 10:05 pm
Id love to win this!
#185 - Erica G @ 10:05 pm
great book
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I would love to give this to my future daughter-in-law. I know have difficult keeping a marriage together these days are, so I would like her to know that she can do all things through prayer.
#187 - Patricia Robertson @ 10:12 pm
I would love to win this book I am just now starting to have a strong relationship with God and I think this book would help me.
#188 - Tiffany G @ 10:25 pm
Im praying that I will win:)
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Please enter me Thanks!
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This is just what I need to start the year off on the right foot. Thanks!
#191 - Patty P. @ 10:48 pm
Sounds like a book that would be helpful to me.
#192 - susan abee @ 10:49 pm
MY MOM WAS A PRAYER WARRIOR!!!!
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i would love to win
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I could use this.
#195 - Jill @ 11:03 pm
I would love this.
#196 - Brooke Allen @ 11:04 pm
Can never pray too much.
#197 - Shannon B. @ 11:06 pm
Sounds like a book I would enjoy and learn something from.
#198 - Carissa Davis @ 11:20 pm
Sounds great!
#199 - Michelle H. @ 11:26 pm
This is a book I think that I would really enjoy reading.
#200 - Jamie @ 11:46 pm
What a super way to start the New Year!
#201 - Christina W @ 12:07 am
Hmmm - would love to check out this book - I like the way you put it - that “we often stumble through our prayer lives”. It would be wonderful to grow more graceful in prayer.
#202 - Jim Cincinello @ 12:08 am
Thank you for the chance to win.
#203 - Veronica Jarvis @ 12:14 am
I would love to win this for my mom….please pick me!
#204 - Diana @ 12:27 am
Prayer is an element of my spiritual life that I’m sure I could improve. I’d love to win this book. Thanks!
#205 - Michelle Simons @ 12:30 am
I am a strong woman, I am a Strong woman…….. I think.
#206 - Laura @ Laura Williams' Musings @ 12:56 am
blogged ya:
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#207 - bella @ 1:03 am
We all need alittle help once in awhile……..especially praying
#208 - Bea Karnes @ 1:12 am
This sounds wonderful. I’d be thrilled to win this book.
#209 - Valerie Mitchell @ 1:16 am
fabulous!
#210 - Sylvia @ 1:23 am
I want to enter this contest.
#211 - Rosanne Morrison @ 1:49 am
People dsay I’m strong and I pray constantly so I’d like to read this
#212 - Terri @ 2:07 am
this is a great giveaway, thanks
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Please pick me!
#214 - T.H. @ 2:26 am
Good Read!
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Oh, I’d love to read this book. Please count me in!
#216 - Jackie O @ 3:28 am
I would love to win this book, blessings!
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I would love to win!
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Sounds like a good book!
#219 - jeff @ 7:40 am
for my wife
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nice
#221 - Sharon Seneker @ 8:52 am
Hi! What a great offer for an inspirational start to 2008! Thanks!
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