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I’ve Been Parenting for a DECADE – Does It Get Easier?

May 12, 2015 by Susan

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A few days ago, my first born Julia turned 10 years old.

And I just can’t get over the concept that I’ve been a mother for a DECADE. I’ve spent 10 years mothering this precious child that I begged God to give me for over 3 years.

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Yes, I struggled with infertility for years before finally getting pregnant with Julia. And then a couple years later, I was blessed again with her little sister Sophia.

Julia on her 10th birthday

Julia 10th birthday - Sophia

By the time I became a mother, I was absolutely desperate for a baby. I’m pretty sure those years of wanting a baby helped increase my patience in the early years of parenting.

But as much as I have absolutely LOVED being a mom, I am continually shocked by how INCREDIBLY HARD it is.

I still think the newborn stage was the hardest because of the lack of sleep and for me the incredible anxiety that something would suddenly go wrong. And the toddler years were pretty tough work too.

But overall I’ve found that parenting still stays DARN HARD the whole way through… it’s just a different type of hard at each stage.

Despite the challenges, I have loved the various stages and each day I’ve felt that my girls were perfect at just that age and I wish I could freeze time and keep them that age forever.

Now with Julia turning 10 years old, I’m starting to feel a little panicked that I really need time to stop. My babies are truly growing up and while it may be nice that I can have a shower without a baby screaming, I am scared for a future without snuggles.

I’m also worried about the upcoming tween and teen years with girls. I’ve always said I was sooooo glad to have girls because I think they are easier… I’m pretty sure they become the more difficult gender to parent in the tween and teen years.

I’d love to hear from you!

How old are your kids? What ages and stages do you think are the hardest? Do you think parenting gets easier as our kids get older?

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Susan Carraretto and her identical twin, Janice Croze, created 5 Minutes for Mom in 2006. Susan loves all social media, but her top addiction these days is Pinterest.

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  1. Heather says

    May 14, 2015 at 7:21 am

    First up – Happy Birthday to Julia and congratulations to you both! Mine are 12 and 9 and, you’re right, it just doesn’t get any easier. My son is heading towards monosyllabic teenage-dom, while my 9 year old daughter is starting to show occasional signs of stroppy. I have to be honest and say that, while I ‘get’ where Stella is coming from (having been a girl myself many moons ago) I haven’t found her any easier to parent than Samuel. They’re both difficult – just in different ways! The worst stage for me so far definitely has to be toddler/pre-school. I enjoyed it the least and found the constant negotiations required to do the simplest tasks exhausting. I’m loving watching them grow up and imagining the grown ups they are going to be. My son is off to high school in August – so that’s the next challenge. Perhaps I should set up a support group for parents of teenagers?!? Good luck to all of us for those years – I think we’ll need it!

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    • Susan says

      May 15, 2015 at 1:52 am

      So funny… Janice’s son Jackson is 13 and is in that “monosyllabic teenage-dom” stage. (Except of course when he’s bugging his little sister.)

      Yes, the toddler/preschooler stage can be ultra-frustrating and exhausting. I wouldn’t want to repeat most of that. LOL

      I think that teenage stage will likely feel the least rewarding… you don’t get snuggles to make up for tough days.

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