How Strong Women Pray

New Habits in the New YearWith each new beginning, be it the new school year when I have another chance to create a system that works for me, or the flip of the calendar, my spiritual life is always a key area of scrutiny. How can I improve? How can I get closer to God? How will I be able to do that?

In How Strong Women Pray Bonnie St. John (former paraolympic medalist, White House staffer, and Rhodes Scholar) tackles the issue of prayer–one area in which I always feel that I am lacking. She clearly explains why we often stumble through our prayer lives (p. xiii):

Conversations about prayer are rare. People can go to church together every day and never talk about how they pray. Husbands and wives can pray separately for a lifetime and never share the experience. Even in a prayer group, most people talk about what they are praying about, not how they actually pray.

In the pages of this book St. John shares her own story–personal and professional successes and failures, the hurt of abuse, and her spiritual journey. She also lets 25 women share how prayer has impacted their lives, but more than that, they simplify and demystify the experience by sharing how they pray. I enjoyed reading her story and the profiles of the other strong women who acknowledge the importance of prayer.  I found this book practically helpful in the area of prayer, encouraging, funny, touching and inspiring. Here are some examples from a few of the women profiled:

“I always feel that I should have a regular prayer routine, but I don’t. I usually talk to God about three times a day.” Heather Whitestone McCallum, former Miss America

Olympic medalist Vonetta Flowers: Today my husband and I get up before the kids and pray before the day gets started. I go downstairs in the basement and sit on apray.jpg comfortable couch with my eyes open.

Amy Domini, CEO of a company which uses investments to build a better world says, “I always pray last thing before I go to sleep. Sometimes I get on my knees. Mostly, I don’t.”

Marilyn McCoo, speaking of her marriage, shares “The Lord gave me the patience. Before I was praying, I tried to handle it all through arguing. Prayer worked much better than arguing. It helped me tremendously. I learned not to take matters in my own hands.”

There are discussion questions included, which would make this book perfect for a book club or small group Bible study.

If you’d like to win a copy, please leave a comment on this post, and check out the New Habits in the New Year guidelines at this main post.

Come back on January 9 to see if you have won. Please be sure that the email address that you enter with is one that you check regularly, and also check your spam folder when the winners are announced if you see your name.


Thank you for all your great comments on your favorite reads of 2007. I really enjoyed reading them. The winner of one (or more) surprise books from my stash is Melissa Markham. You should have an email from me requesting your address.

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  1. Kimberlyn says:

    I can relate to a few of the stories from the women. This sounds like a great read for our womens group. I would love to view it and get better insight of how and when women chose to pray in any circumstance.

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  43. Prayer is an important part of my daily life. Prayer is for the strong, the weak, and all those between the two.

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  134. Michelle Simons says:

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    Hmmm – would love to check out this book – I like the way you put it – that “we often stumble through our prayer lives”. It would be wonderful to grow more graceful in prayer.

  139. What a super way to start the New Year!

  140. Michelle H. says:

    This is a book I think that I would really enjoy reading.

  141. Shannon B. says:

    Sounds like a book I would enjoy and learn something from.

  142. Brooke Allen says:

    Can never pray too much.

  143. tracy holcomb says:

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  144. susan abee says:

    MY MOM WAS A PRAYER WARRIOR!!!!

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  148. Tiffany G says:

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    I would love to give this to my future daughter-in-law. I know have difficult keeping a marriage together these days are, so I would like her to know that she can do all things through prayer.

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  157. Peggy Miller says:

    Pray, Pray, Pray

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    I have already commited to engaging in bible study and I think this book about prayer woud help me in my spiritual quest

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  161. my spiritual life is an area that I am really trying to improve this year! This book would fit right in!!

  162. I need this because often I do not think of myself as a strong woman.

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  173. Karen Ruth says:

    Prayer starts and ends each day for me and thus, I would love to have this book.

  174. Linda Howard says:

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  176. Pamela White says:

    This would be great for my group

  177. Kathy Scott says:

    Please and thank you.

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  179. Kim Statzer says:

    This is my number one goal for the new year. I’d love to read this book.

  180. Shannon H says:

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  182. JONI CHADWELL says:

    this would be great

  183. Kreda Thomas says:

    I would love to win this. I have been going through a lot and my faith has been tested. This would be excellent!!

  184. Awesome!!! Just what I need right now – I know for sure I am feeling God’s pull to deepen my spiritual life. Thanks for the wonderful recommendation!

  185. Cindi Aylor says:

    My prayer life needs a boost. Count me in.

  186. Strong women pray for things besides husbands.

  187. We ALL could use the prayers

  188. Melody from ~ Pennies In My Pocket ~ says:

    I would love to win this. Great giveaway!

  189. Michelle S says:

    I would love to win this book! One of my New Year’s resolutions is to deepen my spiritual walk with the Lord by quiet time, prayer & Scripture Memorization, this would really be helpful! Thanks.

  190. What a thought-provoking giveaway! Hubby and I have been talking about something similar recently. 🙂

  191. my grandmother would love this

  192. Edward Durbin says:

    HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE

  193. I’d love to win this. You always have great books to give away.

  194. This book is a must read; we all could use prayer in our lives.

  195. Lisa - The Scrap Princess says:

    Awesome book – I have added this to my books to read in 2008!

  196. Adrienne Gordon says:

    Please add me.

  197. That would be a wonderful and timely book for my life right now! I am desiring to resurrect my prayer life.

  198. Anita Yancey says:

    Sounds like a good book. Please enter me.

  199. SUSAN VARNEY says:

    would be wonderful to win

  200. I would love to have this book! I have rededicated my prayer life in ’08.

  201. jennifer allen says:

    Count me in!!!

  202. Just today in the car I was thinking how I need to be praying more and how that will look in my life. This would be a great booster book.

  203. valerie mabrey says:

    add me please

  204. Boy do I need help there!

  205. jenny hebert says:

    Sign me up Great way to start 2008

  206. john iavarone says:

    pick us ~ would love this.

  207. Prayer is so imporant! Thank you for this great contest….

  208. Virginia Michalak says:

    I just got baptized 2 months ago. I would love to win this book. I need all of the help I can get.

  209. Debbie Criss says:

    Praying is good.

  210. wanna winnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  211. Jane Squires says:

    I would like to win this book. I know since I’ve had surgery and met so many nice authors who have prayed with me and encouraged me when no one at my church even asks how I am doing, it has been such a blessing. I am even a leader in the church.
    Yet it has been authors who have been there while I have been shut in to encourage and uplift me and pray with me. God Bless them all.

  212. I’d love to win this book.

  213. Would really enjoy reading this

  214. charline s says:

    I could use this book. Everyone should pray

  215. Prayer seems to be the weakest point for me. I just get so busy that it is easy to ignore. So I would love this book!

  216. Valerie Furr says:

    This would be a great book to have and read.

  217. Linda White says:

    who couldnt use a better prayer life?

  218. Betty Barrett says:

    I pray each day…usually by the time my feet touch the floor I have ask for protection over our family and friends all over the globe and from there the conversation continues throughout the day. I would love to pray more mindfully, more earnestly…to slow down and really focus on the power I am addressing.

  219. Wow! Another good one. Throw my name into the hat.

  220. Tiffany Lane says:

    would love this.

  221. John MacDonald says:

    count me in too!

  222. jeanne pellin says:

    Prayer is a part of my life but I would like to find a way to incorporate it more into my overall lifestyle. This book sounds like it could do that for the lucky winner

  223. Jessica Anderson says:

    I re-learned prayer when I was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer. While I have made the leap to faith – I still need a lot of fine tuning.

  224. This sounds like a great book. I don’t know where I would be without prayer, but it wouldn’t be pretty.

  225. Susan Caldwell says:

    Winning this book would
    be an answered prayer! :o)

  226. Tanya Moyer says:

    This sounds like a neat book! Enter me in please, thanks!

  227. great giveaway- please enter me.

  228. This would be a great read…count me in!

  229. Would LOVE to win this one… please add my name. Thank you!!!

  230. Jennifer Turenr says:

    Please enter me, it sounds like a great book

  231. Deb Piper says:

    Prayer is a daily part of my life. It’s awesome to see God move as a result of prayer. I’m a firm believer in prayer.

  232. Sisterlisa says:

    I would LOVE to read this. lisa422 at gmail.com

  233. Corrina Hotra says:

    Please add my name to the drawing. This book sounds great!

  234. Barb Szyszkiewicz, sfo says:

    Sounds like a fascinating book. I’d love to read it.

  235. I’d love to win this one.

  236. Prayer has litterally changed my life! I would cherish this!

  237. Karla Meachem says:

    An AMAZING giveaway – thanks for the entry!

    Be blessed!

  238. Heather (Heather's reality show) says:

    Count me in!

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  240. Sarah at In the Trenches of Mommyhood says:

    Count me in!

  241. I would love to win this for my mom who is having a tough time but keeps going each day with her faith. 😉 Thanks and Happy 2008!!

  242. Vicki Wurgler says:

    put me in the drawing for your book – thanks

  243. This would be awesome. Pick me!!

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  245. Please sign me up. I think I could really use this.

  246. One of my resolutions this year is to nuture my relationship with God so I would LOVE to have this awesome spiritual tool to help me on my way! Thanks for the chance to win this!

  247. Please count me in! Thank you! 🙂

  248. Dominique Withrow says:

    I’m intrigued.

  249. Karen Gonyea says:

    Enter Me Please !!

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    I’d love to read this book!

  252. Shannon Baas says:

    I would love this.

  253. Michelle Rosborough says:

    great book

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    I would love to win this book.

  255. Rebecca Snodgrass says:

    i need this

  256. This sounds like a great book! I love to hear about others’ experiences, and could certainly use some practical advice. Please enter me!

  257. Dottie L Hubbard says:

    This is an area I really need help with.

  258. I could use this book.

  259. Count me in! I’d love to win!

  260. Mya Brooks says:

    With so many struggles I’ve had over the years, I would love to learn how to pray more. Thanks for a great giveaway.

  261. Melissa Markham says:

    I could benefit from this book.

  262. Sounds like a great book!

  263. This sounds wonderful!

  264. Bailey's Leaf says:

    What a wonderful book!

  265. I would love to win this book! Blessings in this new year!

    Dori

  266. Jenn Johnson says:

    I would love to read this! please enter me!

  267. Please add me to the drawing, thanks.

  268. Adventures In Babywearing says:

    This sounds like something I could really benefit from- and definitely timely in my life right now!

    Steph

  269. perfect for someone I know

  270. Katrina (Callapidder Days) says:

    Please enter me — this looks great. Prayer is an area where I am always looking for more encouragement, insight, practical advice.

  271. Evelyn Murray says:

    I love to read. Thanks

  272. Linda Carello says:

    I’d love to win this book!

  273. I’d love to read this book, thanks for offering it!

  274. kellie sutton says:

    It is so easy to begin each new day with the intention to stop, get quiet and listen for Him to speak, but so often for me, I get whisked away by the hustle and bustle of my 4 children, each going in a different direction. I believe this book would be a huge asset to my mornings in helping me re-construct and make a priority, beginning and ending each day in communion with my Creator.
    Thank you for the opportunity to win! 🙂

  275. Michelle S. says:

    My spitual and prayer life has been much in my thoughts lately because I hear so many people talk about their wonderful relationship with God, and while I do pray, I don’t feel I have that, so I would love to read these stories of how women developed their prayer lives. I need ispiration.

  276. Elizabeth says:

    Another great book introduction, thanks.

  277. Tonya Keener says:

    I really need help and direction in the area of prayer

  278. Emmaline Kuebler says:

    Please enter me.

  279. Joyce Collins says:

    Please enter me. Would love to win this.

  280. Molly Capel says:

    Prayer is something I need to incorporate in my life. I would really use this prize.

  281. Joanne Danzer says:

    Would love to win!

  282. Jack Palmer says:

    Thank you for the opportunity to win this exciting prize!

  283. Beth Kuligowski says:

    I’d like to read this. Thanks for the chance to win!

  284. David Bertolo says:

    Do strong women prey on weak men?

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  286. this book sounds fabulous…….would love to win it!!! Count me in!!!

  287. Cara Mirabella says:

    this sounds like a fabulous book that I’d love to read!

  288. Oh yep, we are starting a new group and would love to share this.

  289. I love the title of the book! Our family has discovered that no day is complete if it doesn’t begin and end in prayer. We have also discovered how fun it is to listen to each other pray – we all have a different approach, and you can always hear our personal concerns come out when we have family prayer. As a final note…you find it a lot harder to stay grumpy with someone you’ve just knelt in prayer with! (a big plus when you have so many siblings!)

  290. Please enter me. Thanks!

  291. Miscellany Mom says:

    could always use more help with prayer!

  292. Cindi Hoppes says:

    Sounds like a powerful book. My prayer-life need this book! I know I am lacking in powerful prayer! The fact that it has a study guide/question is super. Please put me in the drawing for you book giveaway.
    Thanks so much, Cindi

  293. This would be nice. I’d like to do the study on it with some of my friends.

  294. Monkey Giggles says:

    count me in please

  295. Prayer is an area I definitely want to focus on and improve this year. I’ve read several books on it, but this one sounds like it has the perspective I can relate to and benefit from. Thanks!

  296. Caryn Bailey says:

    Count me in please!!

  297. Katherine says:

    Please add my name to the drawing!
    :)Kat

  298. Tara Robertson says:

    I’d love to win!