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7 Valuable Lessons I’ve Learned from Having Kids

October 28, 2014 by Lisa

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Since becoming a parent almost five years ago, life has busied but yet, life has slowed down. Time has hurried by yet, time has stood still. Social opportunities have passed me by yet, life has opened up. Being a parent has taught me a thing or two. Here are seven lessons that I’ve learned from having kids.

Lessons Learned From Having Kids

Time Waits on No One

Want to know just how fast time flies? Take a look back at pictures of your children from last year. They look different don’t they? It’s unbelievable what a difference a year can make. They have started to walk, talk, began school, moved up a grade, suffered their  first heartbreak, started driving, gone to college, moved out… So savor every bit of time that you can with these precious souls. The time is now.

Now is the time to embrace them more closely, now is the time to get lost in their eyes, now is the time to start that new business, learn that language, seek that adventure. As our children have so eloquently taught us, time wait on no one.

Life is Full of Wonder

Ever observe a baby discover, touch or taste something for the first time? It could be as simple as their toes touching the sand for the first time. Time stops. Their eyes are full of wonder as if nothing else matters. Just the fine grits of sand and those soft warm toes… that’s it. How can we incorporate more wonder into our lives?

Be Bold

Ask a four year old to draw a picture, dress themselves, or even make you a “pretend meal”, and you will find out exactly what I mean. Scribbles widely scatter the page. Colors and patterns come together with no rules for their composition, flavors and textures like chocolate and eggs come together effortlessly in imaginative one pot wonders. How can we take that same boldness and apply it to our everyday lives?

Don’t Be Afraid to Make Mistakes

I’ve seen my almost new walker, stand to his feet, take a step and fall flat on his tosh. He then gets up, steadies himself and falls again. Many times only to fall again and again. And you know what? He always gets back up. The next day, it’s as if he has no memory of what has occurred the day before. But, I know he remembers because he is always more resilient.

“If you have made mistakes, there is always another chance for you. You may have a fresh start at any moment you choose. For this thing we call “failure” is not falling down, but staying down”, Mary Pickford.

Invest in Creativity

We are all creative beings. God made us that way. Somehow, the older we get,  the more we allow life or people to zap us of that creative energy. After all, adults ought to be more practical and reasonable right? If you have little ones, ask them to go into a room by themselves and play. No TV. No electronics. Whether the rooms has toys or not is really irrelevant because blocks turn into skyscrapers, pillows transform into trampolines and living rooms turn into cities complete with people, restaurants and palaces.

What makes you light up? Do you remember? Get lost in possibilities and allow yourself to become transfixed in your creative flow, so that even time stands still, even if just for a moment.  Allow your creativity to infuse your life. Write words that you’ve never written. Create meals that you never thought you would. Travel to lands near and far. Allow yourself to dream the impossible dreams. That’s what you want for our kids right? Now, all you have to do is want that for yourself.

Push through Fear

I tell my daughter, “You can do this”. I’m like her private cheerleader encouraging her while she cautiously climbs the rock wall at a children’s museum, gives her best effort when counting to one hundred or petting a starfish at an aquarium. I believe in her so much and never want fear to stifle her dreams or her experiences.

Isn’t that what we all want for our children? We want them to push through fear and find their way to courage. That’s what I want for myself too. Don’t you want that?

“To fear is one thing. To let fear grab you by the tail and swing you around is another,” Katherine Paterson.

Love Fully

From the first flutter of life that crept into my being weeks into motherhood, to the joy that delights their faces when I walk into the room, I am reminded of their love. Not tolerated, not liked, but loved. Truly, deeply, wholly. What would life be like if we all loved like a young child? No reservations or pretenses but genuine gut-wrenching emotion. If we said hello to the stranger in the elevator before they even acknowledged us.  If we made the time to have an occasional conversation with our voices instead of our fingers.

If we disconnected from our portable devices long enough to allow our eyes to linger and actually light up when our children walked into the room. Yes! Oh what a world that would be.

So as you go about your days filled with schedules and commitments, remember to watch your children. They are constantly teaching us to be bold, don’t be afraid to make mistakes, invest in creativity, push through fear and love fully because…life is full of wonder and time waits for no one.

 

Written by Lisa of The Domestic Life Stylist. Lisa follows her passion for all things food, family and travel. Read more of her lifestyle tips on her blog, learn effective fine living strategies, family travel tips and expand your culinary horizons.

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Lisa is the founder of The Domestic Life Stylist. A lifestyle blog that focuses on embracing "Living Life at Home with Finesse & Style". Lisa focuses on bringing flair to home, family and food amidst occasional domestic chaos but always great fun and fabulous food. Get her free guide: "15 Healthy Pantry Staples to Get Impressive Meals & Snacks on the Table + 3 Bonus Recipes by visiting her blog.

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5 Comments

  1. Erica Brooks says

    June 10, 2015 at 12:58 pm

    Children provide amazing opportunities for growth. I see things so differently now that I have kids of my own.

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  2. Erica - Let Why Lead says

    October 28, 2014 at 1:58 pm

    Absolutely beautiful, Lisa! I especially loved “be bold.” What a sweet lesson we can learn from our kiddos.

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    • Lisa-The Domestic Life Stylist says

      October 29, 2014 at 11:59 am

      Yes. Little people are great mirrors and admirable teachers. We just have to be willing to pause and digest the lessons that they are sharing with us.

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  3. nikki says

    October 28, 2014 at 10:16 am

    I totally agree. I love the last one. Love fully!

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