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If you ask a mother of school-age children about her week, I would bet one of the first words that will spring to her mind is “busy.” Juggling children’s activities, work and/or volunteer service, household maintenance (we all have to eat and need clean clothes to wear) eats quickly into those 24 hours we all have each day. But even if we manage to get everything done, do we ever ask ourselves, “Is this working for us?”
That is one of the approaches Bernadette Noll suggests in her book Slow Family Living: 75 Simple Ways to Slow Down, Connect, and Create More Joy. Each short chapter gives one way that you can do what the subtitle says: slow down, be more connected or joyful in your day-to-day lives, and just enjoy each other more. Each idea won’t work for each family, but I guarantee you something will work for you.
One that touched me is the “do over.” Do you ever answer a child’s question in a much snippier tone than he deserves? Does your child ever answer you with a disrespectful tone in her voice? Either party can just call “do over!” Then the question and the answer are repeated. Humor is effective to diffuse a situation, and it’s a great way to get your point across about respectful communication without having a big lecture session.
Other ideas that you might want to learn about:
- alternatives to organized sports
- effective listening
- practical ways to move from fast to slow
- experiencing fun and togetherness while doing chores
Check out the Slow Family Living blog to read her manifesto and for more tips and encouragement. You can also like them on Facebook.
We have a copy of Slow Family Living for one of you. Follow the instructions in the rafflecopter below to enter, starting off by leaving a comment and indicating that you’ve done so! The giveaway will close on March 23.
heather c says
Yes, indeed! I find myself repeating myself more often than not, so effective listening is calling my name.
Gianna says
Yes, everything is always rush rush.
Shirley Zolenski says
I would love to. We are always on the go and I would like to enjoy life more.
susan smoaks says
yes we need to try slow family living
Lisa says
Yes, I feel that we are too rushed.
Allison says
Oh a chance of pace would be nice. Slow down
Karen says
Always looks for new ideas. Need help with slowing down sometimes.
mary renshaw says
I work from home and sometimes its hard to get away and separate!!!!
myxi hu says
My stress level is making me sick. I would love to.
kathy pease says
we are always on the go busy with sports and stuff and this sounds like a great tool for quality time
Ed Nemmers says
I want to experience more joy!
Danielle D says
Yes it would work for out family!
Melanie Montgomery says
I need to slow down
shawna says
Yes, because it seems like activities and technology get in the way of being a tight knit family these days.
deana c says
Yes, because everyone in my house is always on the go! We need to slow down!
Brandy W. says
yes, it seems like the perfect way to start “slowing down & smelling the roses”
everything is going into overdrive all the time and some pointers on making better use of my time would be wonderful!
tina reynolds says
with the three little kids I would love to find a way to slow down more
nicole krutz says
yes because i always feel rushed and when i do have a chance to sit down and relax i want to do it alone and not with the kids, i would love some relaxing ideas
Valerie Taylor Mabrey says
Need to find a way to reduce stress
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Cynthia Joncas says
We love doing things together as a family
Katy says
We are more of an old-fashioned family. We like living simply and doing things on the homestead together. We value faith, family and being together. 🙂 This book would be lovely to read!
Stephanie Larison says
Yes, I think it would bring us all closer.
Seaside Book Nook says
I so need to slow down. I would love to win this book. My life (and family’s life) is out of control. We are always rushing to school, work, sports, events, etc. We never even sit down to dinner anymore. HELP!
Jill at Seaside Book Nook
seasidebooknook at yahoo dot com
Caitlin McClure says
Yes! I need help slowing down sometimes
Shelby Brigham says
I would like to try it because it always seems that I am caught up in schoolwork, housework, or errands
Lauren E says
Sometimes we as a family are always rushing. We never know when to slow down and enjoy each other mother. That is why I would like this book
K.Pugh says
Our 4 kids range from highschool to babies at home. I’d love to incorporate some slow living tips.
Thanks for the chance.
april yedinak says
I already practice slow family living, but I would be interested in reading some of the author’s ideas.
Lauren says
P.S. I’d love to try Slow Family Living so my family can relax a little!
Lauren says
Looks like a good book — even kids are stressed these days with afternoons and weekends filled with after-school and extracurricular activities!
Brittany says
I have four kids who are all in sports and activities we are busy all the time it seems. I want to enjoy their childhood with them and slow down to reduce some stress and introduce more fun into our family. I would love this book.
Elisabeth says
As a family we definitely do better when we slow down and it would be neat to learn tips to make this happen more!
Lenora D says
My stress level is making me sick. I would love to.
Beth C says
I want to slow down my life so I am less stressed and have less headaches.
Justine says
I love the tip you shared in the post! It is a simple thing to do that would make interactions more positive! I would love to be able to enjoy and use more her tips!
Erin says
I can relate to the opening paragraph — we are a family of school aged children! I would love to read these suggestions.
kristen says
Really feel like we need to slow down… always busy and its driving us all crazy! lol
Jessica T says
Looks like this book will have a lot of good advice on living in the moment! Something we all need as parents!
Monique says
For me to slow down as a family would help my Daughter as being 9 with all going on in her life she does not need the stress.
Slow down for my family would be to stop and learn what areas need tuning up.
Between school and my husband working and the older our daughter gets I see how important it is.
But to read and take on new ways and tasks is important to me…
If I were to win this book I would be greatful…
Mona Evanochko says
My Daughter talks about how they can slow things down and organize and enjoy their hectic lives, some tips would be great. I’d love to give her this as a gift.
Janet says
Everything is just too hectic. I would love to read this book.
Joy says
i would love to be able to slow down and enjoy life more!
Maureen says
Just entered – this books would be helpful to me and my family as we are always going. Thanks, Maureen
anne says
It is beneficial and healthy. Better for everyone.
angie says
would love a change of pace
Idaho Jill says
I am definitely short with my daughter too often – I am trying to be more patient and listen more, giving her my full attention instead of doing 5 things at once AND listen. Anyway, would love to read the tips in the book, thanks!
Kristie says
I would love to read Slow Family Living! I could use a few tips to slow down and enjoy my family more 🙂
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DebbieKL says
I often feel like I’m always on the move either at home or doing errands. I’d love to read some tips to help me appreciate each day a little more