5 Minutes for Books: Intimate Issues

I have a friend who has often recommended the solid advice and simple direct treatment of Linda Dillow’s Intimate Issues. So, when I was offered a copy of the new reissue, I jumped at it.

Sex is one of those issues that is tough in a marriage. It seems that one partner often has a stronger drive than the other, or even if both are willing the demands of parenting make it last on the list. In addition, many people carry baggage in this area. And it’s something that’s often hard to discuss — with your spouse or with a friend. So, enter Linda Dillow who is willing to answer the “Twenty-One Questions Christian Women Ask About Sex.”

This book is quite thorough. The following issues are some of the ones addressed:

  • How do I shift into sexual gear?
  • What if I don’t want to do it?
  • Where can I go to buy a new body?
  • How can I get over the guilt of past sexual sin?
  • Help! I’m attracted to another man.
  • What can I do when HE has a headache?
  • How can sex go from boring to sizzling?
  • What’s not okay in bed?

Dillow backs her advice with Biblical teaching, not just her opinion. She is clear to point out when the Bible definitely prohibits certain behavior and when it’s not mentioned specifically she uses other passages in the Bible to shed light on the subject.

In the appendix she offers a twelve-week Bible study to becoming a godly and sensuous wife if you want to go one step further in your effort to be a better wife. Can you think of a Valentine’s Day present that your husband would want more?

If you’d like to win a copy of Intimate Issues, leave a comment. The winner will be announced in next Monday’s column and is subject to our terms and conditions and void where prohibited.

The winners of The Chickin Feed Primer are
#90 Carrie Baird
#35 Sharon S.
#12 Colleen M.
#43 Martha C.

You should have received an email from me, but if not send your name and address to 5minutesforbooksATgmailDOTcom.


This post was written by contributing editor Jennifer Donovan, who also blogs at Snapshot and is managing editor of 5 Minutes for Books.

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166 Comments

  1. I would love to read this book. It’s a hot topic in our house right now.

  2. Rebecca C says:

    Thanks so much for sharing, I would love to read this!

  3. Donna M. Clark says:

    Interesting sounding book. This book would come in really helpful. Thank you for hosting this giveaway.

  4. Definitely need to win this.

  5. Carrie Duron says:

    I really need this book. Thanks for offering help for us!
    Carrie
    carrieduron at yahoo dot com

  6. Never one to walk past a good book. Thanks for the chance to win it!!

  7. Scripture must have answers to everyday questons.

  8. Marcy Strahan says:

    I would really love to read this book!
    I love how it’s Christian based & not just porn like other self help sex books seem to be.

  9. I’ll learn from the book

  10. Will I enjoy sex? How do I know my capabilities? Should I do outside research? (I mean, it is tough avoiding porn sites in this situation). I’m still in college and am getting married soon. I REALLY WANT THIS BOOK!!!

  11. This would be a nice book to have to enhance a relationship

  12. Debbie W. says:

    Going through some changes in my life, maybe this would be a good thing to read.
    Thank you for the contest.

  13. Christy Hickman says:

    We just had our 3rd child and this would really be a great book for us. Thanks for the chance to win.

  14. Lily Kwan says:

    Please enter me into the contest. Thanks!

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    I’m curious about this book

  16. Jeanine P says:

    Nice prize! I would love to win! Thanks so much for the giveaway!

  17. Thanks for the opportunity to win. Hope you had a good valentine’s day!

  18. Michelle H says:

    Sounds like an interesting and informative read. If I win I will pass it on to Women’s Centre after reading. Thanks!

  19. Adrian Lamont says:

    This is great, count me in.

  20. Michelle H. says:

    I am interested in the Christian perspective on this subject. Please enter me.

  21. Yes, please, looks very interesting!

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    Please enter me–thanks!

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    Thanks again 🙂

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    Can I ask you a question?

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    What a great idea for a book!

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    I would love to read this book. Since going back to church sex seems dirty

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  38. Gabriel J. says:

    Please, enter me, great prize!!!

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  40. Stephanie says:

    Sounds like a good book!!

  41. Mommy Magee says:

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  43. Sonya Sparks says:

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  44. The Gang's All Here! says:

    Sounds like a great resource. Who couldn’t use some extra help in this area of marriage?

  45. Meredith Rogen says:

    Hmm, being a Christian generally keeps sex books off the shelf, but I want this one!

  46. I would love this book. I usually request my books from the library instead of entering your book contests, but they don’t carry it–though it sounds like they should!!

  47. Wendy McIlhaney says:

    I would really enjoy reading this book, please enter me in the contest.

  48. Diana (Ladybug Limited) says:

    Sounds like a good read– thanks for highlighting it.

  49. Kathy Scott says:

    I love to read. Thanks for the chance.

  50. Jill Miller says:

    Sounds like quite a useful book!!

  51. Never too old to learn

  52. Yeah, I’d like to read this, thanks!

  53. Susan Smith says:

    sounds like a nice book

  54. Though I have a great marriage and wonderful relationship… there is always room for growth. 🙂

  55. I’m willing to learn.

  56. Melissa P says:

    Thanks for the giveaway!

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  64. I’ve always been a fan of Dillow. This looks like a great read…thanks!
    Megret

  65. i listened to a radio program about this book last week and have been wanting to get it. i would LOVE to win! thanks for the contest!

  66. The Ory's says:

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    hi enter me please and thank you

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  85. Who knew there was a book like this on the market? What a present! Thanks for the Chicken Feed book. I am looking forward to it!

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  88. Shannon H says:

    Please enter me, thanks!

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  90. Who couldn’t use this book. We are not 22 any more!

  91. I would love to be able to read a book about intimacy from a Christian perspective; thanks so much!

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    I also get your newsletter.

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    I just finished reading Linda Dillow’s Creative Counterpart and wanted to read this book as well. Thanks for the chance to win!

  97. Lauralee Hensley says:

    It is hard to talk to a spouse about why he’s not in the mood. I think I could use this book right now.

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    I’d very much like to read this. I’m feeling a little awkward with my post-baby body.

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  101. This sounds really interesting!

  102. RefreshMom says:

    I heard them on the radio last week; if the book contains the information they talked about on the show it would be a great book for any couple (they had suggestions for helping husbands understand their wives in the intimacy department too). Good giveaway.

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    and I’m subscribed too 🙂

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    My sister would love this. Please accept my entry. Thank you.

  110. Upstatemomof3 says:

    I would love to enter. I won’t go into detail but it would be a good read for me 🙂 Thanks!!!

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  118. Linda White says:

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  121. I would love to read this!

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    what a great looking book, no one wants to ask these questions, but we all know we want to!!

  123. Barbara H. says:

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  124. I greatly appreciate your time here in blogville & especially the recommendations & opportunities to win books. This book is definitely needed in many homes… mine too – looking forward to see if I win & celebrating with whom ever does (even if I don’t-of course!).
    Blessings & Prayers, HL

  125. Hey I’d like to win the book. count me in please.

  126. Sounds like an interesting book to read.

  127. Michael Capp says:

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  134. Mozi Esmes Mommy says:

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  135. Wow! I would love to enter this giveaway. Thanks for hosting it.

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  137. This is a great book I own a copy of it, but I’d love to give this one away to a fellow reader!

  138. This book sounds really interesting, I would the opportunity to read it.

  139. This sounds like it’s the same book my friend got when she got married. I’ve been trying to figure out the title for ages! I would love to win it!

  140. This sounds like a great book. I would love to win a copy. Thanks for taking time to shed light on this important topic in marriage.

  141. Stephanie says:

    Sounds like an interesting read – and I’m sure I’d appreciate the author’s faith-based philosophy.

  142. Organizing Mommy says:

    Sounds like a needed book for today’s issues.

  143. The only sex book I’ve ever read discussed just about every possible thing that can go wrong and every horrible thing you can get from having sex. (It came recommended.) Hopefully this one will be better than that. Not that it should be too hard to do.

  144. I would love to win this giveaway. Please enter me!

  145. I’m not sure if this competition is open to those outside the US, but if it is (I’m in Australia) I’d love to enter 🙂

  146. I’d love to win a copy of this book.

  147. Queen-sized funny bone says:

    I could use all the help I can get in the intimacy department. Please enter me fora copy of the book.