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Maddie’s Lesson

April 23, 2009 by Janice

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Maddie Spohr — the tiny toddler that took over Twitter — has changed us.

We, who fell in love with her as she giggled on video and who marveled at her stunning blue eyes and unbelievable eye lashes, won’t ever forget little Madeline. A smile and a spirit like Maddie’s is truly unforgettable.

In my latest column at Guideposts, I shared the lesson Maddie taught me.

Thank you Madeline — I just wish so badly you were still here…

Maddie’s Lesson

Perspective makes us better parents…

It is 9:30 p.m. and I am still wrestling my squirming toddler, trying to get her to go to sleep–and it isn’t helping that my seven-year-old son keeps getting out of bed and peeking into her room.

I try to shield Olivia’s eyes and shoo him out, but she spies her big brother out of bed and ready to play. Jackson scrambles back to his room and I snuggle her and hold her tight, kissing her head and singing “Jesus Loves Me” in her ear.

When finally she surrenders to sleep, I slip away and go to my son who still isn’t staying in his bed.

I crawl into bed with him and he lays his head on my shoulder and curls up next to me. It is 10 p.m. and I’m exhausted. But I am not cross with him tonight. I just hold him tight and tell him stories about when he was little. I am tender and sentimental. I am cherishing him, even as my weariness grows…

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Janice is co-founder of 5 Minutes For Mom. She's been working online since 2003 and is thankful her days are full of social media, writing and photography.

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7 Comments

  1. melanie says

    April 24, 2009 at 2:46 pm

    Beautifully written!

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  2. Maggie says

    April 24, 2009 at 12:18 pm

    Thank you for sharing this, Janice. I know I’ve been hugging my children more and more these days. Even my 17 year old who doesn’t think she needs hugs any more. 🙂

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  3. AmyG says

    April 24, 2009 at 10:11 am

    Beautiful post, Janice! Since I’ve been reading blogs & blogging, I’ve heard of so many babies & young children who have touched my hearts, with the things that their little bodies have had to deal with. It definitely makes me hold my girls tighter & closer, because you just never know.

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  4. Jenean says

    April 24, 2009 at 10:01 am

    Janice, thank you for posting such a moving story. It is sad that tragedy has to happen in order for us to cherish what we each have, but all the same I’m very glad that lessons are learned. That means that Maddie’s life and death were not in vain.

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  5. Upstatemomof3 says

    April 24, 2009 at 9:43 am

    Well, I suppose I needed a good cry. I have not wanted to put either of my kids down since Maddie.

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  6. Abbie says

    April 24, 2009 at 8:24 am

    This brought tears to my eyes. Life is truly precious.

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  7. AmyL says

    April 24, 2009 at 12:20 am

    Beautifully done, Janice. I hope that Maddie’s legacy continues to grow.

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