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Mom, seriously… is this safe? Seriously??

June 3, 2008 by Janice

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He rode back to me on his bike as I loaded the stroller in the car. “Mom, I don’t think this is a good idea. It doesn’t seem safe to me.”

I smiled deep inside at my careful son. (If you read here often, you might be surprised to hear me refer to Jackson as ‘careful.’ Jackson is an active, spirited child and his impulsiveness has nearly killed him on numerous occasions when he darted across the street without looking or chased a piece of paper caught in the wind across a busy parking lot. But if given a moment to calculate risk, Jackson is quite cautious and his fears can often keep him safe. This was especially handy when he was a toddler and would never climb (even out of a crib) for fear he would hurt himself.)

Tonight, he wanted us to walk home from Susan’s house, (we live a few blocks from each other,) so that he could ride his bike. I had my van with me and I needed to take it home. But I had an idea.

I remembered when Susan and I were Jackson’s age how we would get our mom to let us out of the car a few blocks from home and then we would run home next to the car. We felt so independent – free but still within safety’s reach. (We too were cautious, fearful children.)

So, tonight I thought I would let Jackson fly a little on his own. I suggested the idea to him. “Jackson, how about you ride your bike home and I will drive alongside you in the car. You can ride down to the end of the driveway now and wait for me while I put Olivia in the car.”

He headed off, but returned a moment later, expressing his concern, “Mom, I don’t think this is a good idea. It doesn’t seem safe to me.”

“Okay, Jackson. We can put your bike in the car – no worries. How about I follow you to the end of the driveway and then you can get in.”

“Yes,” he eagerly agreed, “That is what I wanted.”

As he set off, I watched him and knew exactly what would happen next. And it did. It always does with Jackson. He just needs to start something and realize that he can do it and then he is off!

I pulled up next to him with the window down, “Do you want to go to the next driveway?”

He paused and looked up the road and then looked back at me. “Mom, seriously… is this safe? Seriously??”

“I will be right here next to you,” I assured him.

“That is really far away – but, if you stay close.”
And he started to pedal. As we neared the driveway, he called out, “I think I can make it all the way home… if you keep the window down and stay right beside me.” He pedaled as hard as he could as the sidewalk rolled upwards into a long incline. It was uphill almost all the way home. I slowly followed next to him, my hazard lights on and waving the odd car by that came up behind me. I smiled and gave them the thumbs up as they passed me. Through their windows I could see their grins.

“A little faster now – stay right next to me,”
Jackson guided me as we continued our way home. As we turned the corner and he could see our house just a few houses away, he let me go, “Okay – now you can go normal speed. I will meet you at home…” I could hear the pride in his voice.

As he put his bike away in the garage, Jackson reflected, “What a fun day… I learned to be brave. I killed my fears. Mom – can we do that again one day?”

“Sure, Jackson. I am really proud of you. But do you know what I am happiest about? That you listened to that voice of caution inside you. Our fears are often telling us that we need to be careful and they are often right. You did the right thing coming to Mom with your worries so we could talk about them together and decide what to do.”

Often Jackson seems so different than the child I was growing up. But tonight I saw me in him so clearly. Memories being relived.

As he got ready for bed, Jackson looked at me and confided, “That was freaky today Mom – it really was freaky.” But I saw his eyes twinkling with pride.

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22 Comments

  1. Cresanna says

    June 11, 2008 at 7:59 pm

    Wow! What a learning opportunity! I really love how you summarized the lesson for him afterward.

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  2. Rebekah aka babiesabroad says

    June 5, 2008 at 12:15 am

    Aww this sounds very much like my little Audrey. She’s a go getter who doesn’t seem to be afraid of much of anything… but when it counts she definitely gives things a second thought and looks to me to reassure her that she should spread her wings a little!

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  3. melody is slurping life says

    June 4, 2008 at 9:51 pm

    What a precious experience…from your childhood to his…he’ll never forget this, never.

    🙂

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  4. Alicia says

    June 4, 2008 at 1:56 pm

    What a wonderful experience. Jackson got to be dependent on you and independent all at the same time. It’s beautiful!

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  5. Shimmy Mom says

    June 4, 2008 at 12:36 pm

    What a cute story! Good for him.
    Unfortunately, (but probably good really) my boy is almost 11 and is in the trying to prove he can do EVERYTHING on his own stage. He want’s to ride his bike for his paper route, which is a mile away and three miles long. He wants to run errands for me, like going to the grocery store to get me the jelly we’re out of. Sometimes I wish we could go back to the more cautious days.

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  6. Natalie says

    June 3, 2008 at 11:38 pm

    He sounds like a great kid! I wish my 3 year old were that cautious…oh how I wish!

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  7. Amanda Daybyday says

    June 3, 2008 at 8:42 pm

    awesome!

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  8. R.L.Scovens says

    June 3, 2008 at 6:21 pm

    That was a great story! Isn’t it wonderful watching our kids grow up!?

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  9. Kellyn says

    June 3, 2008 at 5:28 pm

    That is such a great story! Thank you for sharing it with us.

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  10. Tiff says

    June 3, 2008 at 4:33 pm

    What a great post! I hope i have moments like these with my boys!

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  11. T with Honey says

    June 3, 2008 at 4:11 pm

    That’s an awesome moment for both mom and son! Way to go!!!

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  12. Janice says

    June 3, 2008 at 3:55 pm

    Thanks everyone for your feedback! I loved writing this post so that I can remember these first days of testing his wings. Since I know one day he will all too gladly fly far too far away from me.

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  13. Sara says

    June 3, 2008 at 3:47 pm

    Reading this post made me smile.

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  14. RefreshMom says

    June 3, 2008 at 3:41 pm

    Beautiful! I have a cautious one too and it’s one of my favorite traits about him. It gives me hope that when I’m not right there to check in with that he’ll have what it takes to make good choices for himself.

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  15. Monica- Paper Bridges says

    June 3, 2008 at 3:11 pm

    i’m crying here. that was great. way to go jackson (and jackson’s mommy)

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  16. Nodins Nest says

    June 3, 2008 at 3:11 pm

    For some reason that post made me teary eyed, seeing my son grow up and need me less, scares me and yet like you, I would also be so proud of him!

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  17. Sam says

    June 3, 2008 at 2:56 pm

    Awww – all he needed was to test his wings a bit and once he realised he could do it he was fine! You wait until he starts begging for the car keys!! 😉

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  18. Mad Squirrel says

    June 3, 2008 at 2:39 pm

    Ten on Tuesday is how the world has changed since you were in school. I think this fits into to that mind frame!

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  19. Tanna says

    June 3, 2008 at 2:25 pm

    Great post, that sounds like something my son would do. He is super cautious.

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  20. Allison says

    June 3, 2008 at 1:54 pm

    Aw! What a nice story. He sounds like such a great little kid!

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  21. Jennifer says

    June 3, 2008 at 1:41 pm

    Great post, Janice!

    Reply

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