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The Perfect Grandmother

March 19, 2010 by Janice

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5 Minutes for Nana — The Perfect Grandmother

Teresa Bell Kindred from Nana Hood.com takes a look at what really makes a grandmother “perfect.”


Is Betty White America’s idea of the perfect grandmother?
According to an article I read this week on Psychology Today, she just may be.

Betty-White-1988-Emmy-Awards-by-Alan-LightSusan Krauss Whitbourne, Phd is the author of the article I mentioned entitled Grandparents in our lives: Fulfilling us, Fulfilling them. Dr. Whitbourne makes mention of the fact that recently a page was started on Facebook requesting that Betty White be asked to host Saturday Night Live. At the time I am writing this post over 413,000 people have joined in on the request! (Note: Betty White is now scheduled to host SNL on May 8th!)

”To these readers, she (Betty White) represents the grandparent they either never had or the grandparent who provided stability in a family sorely needing stability,” says Dr. Whitbourne.

Dr. Whitbourne goes on to talk about her own grandmother. “Personally, I was close to my maternal grandmother, who lived with my family during my teen years. Apart from a few disagreements about dating, she was an important figure in my life. An expert seamstress who made a living as a master glovemaker (her gloves were sold to Queen Elizabeth), she shared with me her incredible talents and it was thanks to her that knitting is my favorite hobby. She also was an inspiration to me. At the end of her life, when she could no longer see, she switched her craft to making woven potholders, just to keep her hands busy. She was super-proud of me perhaps just as much for my education (she lived until my second year of grad school) as for my hand-knit creations.”

You don’t have to look far to find examples of grandparents who had a positive influence on their grandchildren.

Dr. Whitbourne uses President Obama as an example of someone who was greatly influenced by their grandmother. He was raised by Madelyn Dunham, his maternal grandmother. “She’s the one who taught me about hard work,” he said. “She’s the one who put off buying a new car or a new dress for herself so that I could have a better life. She poured everything she had into me.”

I don’t remember my paternal grandmother, she died when I was just a few months old. My maternal grandmother, Grandma Layne, was my definition of “the perfect grandmother.” A Godly woman who loved her family and always had time for her grandchildren, she was the most patient, kind woman I have ever known.

abby-and-pups-cropHow will my grandchildren remember me? I am not a cooking baking, constantly in the kitchen type grandmother. I am about as crafty as my dog Murphy (I can’t even make sock puppets very well. Sorry Char!) I can’t knit or sew (not even a missing button).

The truth is there are no “perfect” grandmothers (no, not even Grandma Layne-but she was close!) because we are all human beings with flaws and inconsistencies.

What makes a grandmother close to perfect is the love she has for her grandchild, and when it comes to that, I should do okay because I am absolutely, positively crazy about my granddaughter.

Theresa-Kindred-130Teresa Bell Kindred is a wife, mom of five, nana of one, author, freelance writer and dedicated nana blogger at www.nanahood.com. Teresa is also the founder of The Nana Blogs, a site dedicated to nanas, grandmas, memas (and moms).

Photo Credit: Photo of Betty White by Alan Light

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4 Comments

  1. Teresa from NanaHood says

    March 26, 2010 at 3:25 pm

    I loved my grandmother dearly and she was a big influence on my life, but I also understand that not everyone was blessed in the same way. My own children have little contact with their paternal grandmother (her choice). It is heart wrenching but my philosophy is to fall back on the Serenity Prayer and remember that I have to accept the things I cannot change. Blessings to you gals for commenting on my post! And thanks to Janice and Susan for allowing me to write it!

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  2. Angie says

    March 21, 2010 at 9:32 pm

    I love Betty White! I wish my parents were good grandparents but they’re not and I have no choice but to accept it. I was adopted and was thrilled when I found my biological mother. Sadly, she passed away almost 3 years ago, and there’s been a hole in my heart ever since. I mourn the fact that my children will never have a relationship with their grandparents like I did with mine. What a shame, and a waste…

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  3. Funkidivagirl says

    March 21, 2010 at 8:36 pm

    Grandmas are special people! I loved my grandmother simply because she loved me so much.

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  4. Allison says

    March 21, 2010 at 9:46 am

    What a sweet post. My son is luck enough to have 3 wonderful Grandmas in his life. They all love him in their unique ways, and I know that he will be a very well rounded little boy because of them. Yay Grandmas!

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