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A Car Would Not Have Made It This Far
Posted By Kathleen Marie
My husband and I had a short romance. We met in November of 1984, became engaged in December of 1984, and were married in April of 1985. Of course, my mom was quite surprised of how quickly things moved along. But, she was very supportive, as always.
She and I planned everything. She bought me such a beautiful wedding dress, and paid for the wedding. Everything was done just right. Then came the day of the wedding. It was a lovely Saturday, and April showers were nowhere to be found. The nerves were setting in for me, and my dear mom. God bless her, she was so loving, and helpful to me all day. Our wedding started at 6:30 that evening. Mom was the one who would be driving me to the church.
Well, she filled the tub with big bubbles, and had me take a relaxing , warm bath. She always pampered me. She said, ‘Honey, you relax your mind and body. Everything is going to be fine, this day will be filled with sweet, happy, precious moments for you.’
Then, the time arrived. We got in the car, and headed down the road to the church. I noticed that she was driving very slowly. I said, ‘Mom, we are going to be late if you do not speed up a little bit. You know, I really would like to be on time.’ Mom stopped the car, looked directly in my eyes, and proceeded to say to me, ‘You know, you are my baby girl, and if you do not want to get married today, I can turn this car around right now, we can be home in just a few minutes. If you do not want to get married now, I will buy you a car instead.’ You have to love her!
But, I chose Eddie instead of a new car. I believe I did well. We will celebrate twenty-three years of marriage in April of next year. A car would not have made it this far, but Eddie has.
Mom loved Eddie like a son; they were buddies. About a month before she passed away, she was so weak, and could barely speak. She pulled Eddie close to her hospital bed, and said these words to him: ‘I am so glad she chose you, instead of a car.’ Thanks for the memories mom, I love, and miss you always.
My mom passed away April 21, 2006, Eddie and I cherish all the precious memories we have of her.
Denise Oldham-Chattanooga Tennessee
http://shortybearsplace.blogspot.com/
Oct 15th, 2007
You bring back memories of my daughter’s short romance that led to marriage. They met in June, engaged in October, and married at the end of December. I had prayed for my son-in-laws when my girls were born. The two have been happly married for almost four years and I know they are ment to be together and this is an answer to pray. My husband had a hard time of it, but now loves his son-in-law and knows that his little girl will be well taken care of.
I’m glad you didn’t choose the car! Great reminder that our personal relationships last longer than other things. Thanks Denise!
This was the SWEETEST post I’ve read in a long time. I have tears!! I love it. That’s one to share with the grandchildren one day.
Thank you for sharing that–what sweet memories.
I am glad you picked Eddie too. It seems that you have chosen right and God gave you the one who would take care of you.
Your Mom would be proud.
What a fun memeory. Charish her always.
Oh Denise,
I love your Eddie. I love your Mother. This story is wonderful and filled with so much hope for marriages. You are a gift. Thank you.
Denise, you are so neat!! Loved this post! Glad you have Eddie and not a old car!! Love you, Grams
You had me laughing and wanting to tear up at the same time. What a precious story!
p.s. Great title btw.
This was SO sweet!!
What a sweet story. How nice that your mom was there to share it with you.
Thanks for sharing those sweet memories. What a very special Mom who loved you so much! And glad you chose Eddie instead of the car, too! Early congratulations on 23 years together!