How to Clean and Declutter – When You Really Don’t Want To

by Janice

I didn’t go to Mexico, but I DID clean my closet…

I fell on my bed, exhausted but liberated. I looked around my room and felt like I had taken a scrub brush to the inside of my skull and cleaned out the cobwebs and chaos in my brain. I actually felt healthier as I looked around my decluttered, freshly organized, dusted, and vacuumed room.

How to Clean and Declutter

In my ADHD world, where I run around with a to-do list too long, and two kids with too much energy and too little focus themselves, things in my house are rarely never completely organized. And I hate it.

I really WANT to have a home where there is a place for everything and everything is in its place, but it is impossible for me. Just like in my life, there is too much going on for everything to fit!

But some days I have to put my foot down and take back at least a part of my house — and my life.

That was what happened last weekend…

I couldn’t bear to unpack after Mom 2.0 Summit because my closet and my bedroom were stuffed and disorganized. So, instead of unpacking, I had my suitcases sprawled across my hallway for over a week, half un-packed and driving me crazy.

When my kids went to their Dad’s house for the weekend, I decided I had to finally unpack and put away the suitcases.

But as I went to put away a purse, I decided I needed to make some room in my closet.

But to make room in my closet, I had to find a better place for the stacks of books that were tipped over and blocking the closet door.

But to make room for the books on the bookshelf, I needed to get rid of 20% of the books on my bookshelves. (I am done having babies — all those pregnancy and early parenthood books can go…)

And on and on it went, as I fell down the rabbit hole of decluttering.

By midnight, I had bags and bags of clothes and books to donate to the Salvation Army, and a few loads of recycling and trash as well. (Yes, it was time to get rid of the mix cassette tapes from the 80′s and 90′s. That was hard. I am not going to sugar coat it.)

As I curled up on my bed, I was relieved and refreshed. Things felt so much better in my world, just from purging one room.

I turned on my iPhone and opened Facebook to see what my friends were up to as I drifted off to sleep.

And then I saw it. Three of my best blogging girlfriends had landed in Mexico and were enjoying their first evening in a glorious luxurious resort. It was a press trip that I had turned down a couple months before because my life and my schedule were just too over-packed. Yes, my life was too chaotic there wasn’t even room for a trip to Mexico with some of my dearest blogging kindred!

I sighed as I looked through their Instagram feeds, realizing that I could have been there, enjoying all the fabulous things they were posting about.

We have to make hard decisions in life some times. We have to say no to the things we want to do, to make time for the things we have to do.

And while the beach and the sun and the food would have been fabulous — I DID clean my closet!!!

How to Clean When You Don’t Want To…

It was a thorough purge that Friday night. And so overdue.

But I still have several more rooms to purge and reclaim in my house. (Those kids keep out growing their clothes and toys, and more stuff keeps coming into our house, every single day.)

I have to remember to keep going, to keep decluttering and organizing, even when I don’t want to.

SO, I have made up a plan to clean, declutter, and organize — even when I really don’t want to…

Clean Declutter Organize

1. HYDRATE

Before you begin your tackle, take care of your body. Fill up a tall glass of water and guzzle it down like you are about to enter battle in a 100* desert. If you want some extra inspiration, add a couple splashes of lemon juice and a sprig of mint, if you have some extra mint handy from your latest Mojito or if you have a mint plant growing in your kitchen.

If water isn’t going to cut it and you need some caffeine, pour yourself a tall to-go mug and drink up. (For a completely delicious and decadent energy kick, try chocolate covered coffee beans. Those little sugar balls are dangerously good and pack a ton of caffeine. But be careful and don’t overdo it. Sadly, I can no longer consume caffeine. It is tragic, I know. It is amazing I get anything done.)

2. DANCE

It is hard to stay in a bad mood when some great music comes on. If you don’t have the energy, emotionally or physically, to tackle getting off the couch let along to tackle a cleaning or de-cluttering task, you are just one good song from a completely new you.

Yes, I promise, today can get better if you add a fabulous playlist. Whether you have to listen on headphones or you can crank up your speakers, turn on some music.

Here is a super fun “put me in a great mood” playlist Susan created. I am listening to it right now!

3. START SMALL

Are you overwhelmed? I am. Everyday. Every direction I look in my life there is a reminder of all that I can’t get done.

But don’t look at the whole job.

Pick up one thing. Then pick up another. Now one more. Way to go! You are on your way!!!

4. CELEBRATE

Once you have reclaimed one area/room/inch in your house, look at that wonderfully peaceful spot and celebrate it. Celebrate yourself. Revel in how good that organization makes you feel.

You did it. You can do this organization thing. All you needed was a little water, a little music and a little success to become a cleaning, decluttering machine!

Written by Janice Croze, co-founder of 5 Minutes for Mom
Talk with me: @5minutesformom and Facebook.com/5minutesformom
Pin with me at http://pinterest.com/5minutesformom/



Email Author    |    Website About Janice

Janice is co-founder of 5 Minutes For Mom. She's been working online since 2003 and is thankful her days are full of social media, writing and photography. You can see more of her photos at janicecrozephotography.com.

View all articles by

{ 29 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Preslaysa May 23, 2014 at 12:48 pm

Loved the part about dancing. Cleaning house can be such a drudgery for me. It’s best to liven it up!

Reply

2 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:27 am

Yes – isn’t it amazing how music can make things better and much more fun! :) Thanks for stopping by!

Reply

3 Tanya May 23, 2014 at 1:43 pm

Music really helps me get in the mood to clean when I really don’t feel like cleaning. Great tips :)

Reply

4 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:28 am

Yes – music can do so much for our moods! I need to remember to turn it on more when I am at home. Since I had kids, I so often don’t put music on that I enjoy and need for my mood!

Reply

5 Jennifer Donovan May 23, 2014 at 4:55 pm

I never really want to! But like you said, I feel good when it’s done. I have a large closet, which is great, but it totally gets cluttered. I am hoping that when the busy spring calms down (ha ha ha), I’ll have some time to do it.

Reply

6 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:29 am

Yes – the big closets can be so dangerous. Growing up, Sue and I had a HUGE walk in closet and some times we couldn’t even get in it. Then my mom would work with us for a full weekend to get it back under control. Good luck!

Reply

7 Cheryl Free May 26, 2014 at 4:36 am

Music always gets me moving when I don’t want to clean.

Reply

8 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:30 am

Totally! Remember when we had to strap on “Discmans” and “Walkmans?” lol

Reply

9 Mahdi Martin May 26, 2014 at 2:44 pm

I find that keeping my home clean and organized comes more naturally when I take good care of myself. Staying focused on my health and fitness has made me strive to improve more than one area of my life.

Reply

10 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:30 am

Such a great point! When we are out of balance with our health and spirit, everything becomes more challenging!

Reply

11 Meagan bs May 28, 2014 at 9:48 am

i always feel better when i get my house clean and organized, i need to do some major work soon.

Reply

12 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:32 am

Isn’t it amazing how we can feel so much better when our environment is in order? I still have tons to do…

Reply

13 Tammy S May 28, 2014 at 10:56 am

Great tips! I am one of those people that loves to have on music when I am trying to accomplish a task. Good music can keep you motivated and going.

Reply

14 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:33 am

What drives me crazy is how often I don’t think to turn on music and then when I do, I am like, “Why didn’t I do that ages ago???”

Reply

15 Karen Lynch May 28, 2014 at 11:37 am

I have my daughter doing this before she gets too settled for summer break.

Reply

16 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:33 am

Ahh great idea! Doing a thorough purge of my son’s room is on the top of my summer list!

Reply

17 Rebecca Parsons May 29, 2014 at 1:06 pm

I only organize out of frustration and need to stop. I am slowly starting to do it in small amounts. Great tips.

Reply

18 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:34 am

Yes – as my mom always said, “Inch by inch it is a cinch.” ;-) Good luck!

Reply

19 Angela Saver May 31, 2014 at 7:21 pm

Great tips to help get me motivated! Listening to music always helps stimulate me & of course, seeing the progress I make motivates me to keep working!

andysavi.mom@gmail.com

Reply

20 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:35 am

Indeed – music can get you started and progress keeps you going!

Reply

21 Helga May 31, 2014 at 10:45 pm

Great plan. I like the hydrate step, so overlooked!

Reply

22 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:37 am

Indeed! I make sure to stop and guzzle a glass of water numerous times throughout the day and it is always such a wake me up!

Reply

23 Peggy Johnson June 3, 2014 at 5:30 pm

I use music to help pass the time and try to make a game of it

Reply

24 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:38 am

Yes – we need to have fun during our chores! :)

Reply

25 Leigh Anne Borders June 5, 2014 at 12:28 am

Thank you for these encouraging tips. I am a school teacher and am literally tacking room by room right now getting organizing and decluttering.

Reply

26 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:39 am

Oh gosh — good for you! There is a ton of organization for teachers – I don’t envy it! Good luck! :)

Reply

27 Heather Hayes Panjon June 6, 2014 at 6:10 pm

Great, Fun Cleaning Tips! I Love The Dancing Tip Especially Making Cleaning Fun Is My Cleaning Style!

Reply

28 Janice June 19, 2014 at 2:39 am

Yes – having fun is critical! :) Good for you!

Reply

29 Dian June 20, 2014 at 1:49 am

Loved this post! Your 4 step formula is do-able nd I can definitely bust a move or two while organizing. Can’t wait to get started….tomorrow.

Reply

Leave a Comment

Previous post:

Next post: