This week’s Tackle is a little different than most of our weekly projects. Rather than a physical project, I tackled the frustrations I’ve faced this week while dealing with people who didn’t follow through with a commitment.
Without going into specific detail, I volunteered to help out with something at one of my kids’ schools. The project that I needed to complete depended heavily on other people getting their steps done first. I waited. I sent emails. I tried to contact people multiple times, but got almost no response. A few parents who had not volunteered for that middle step in the project tried to help fill in some gaps.
In the end, I had to make do with what I had personally done. Many times over the last few weeks I’ve felt like that young woman tugging at her hair. I’ve certainly felt like screaming, “I will NEVER volunteer for this again!”
The problem is that regardless of what I do or don’t volunteer to do, I will always run into people – at school, at work, and even at church – who will not follow through with their half of a commitment. My husband taught me a great lesson this week.
What they do is out of my control. What I do is under my control. Focus on what I can change and let go of what I can’t.
I have spent so much time these last few weeks frustrated with other people, but in the end that energy was wasted. My frustration was not productive at all. And for the record….with my husband’s help and expertise, the project turned out pretty awesome (if a little bit short because of lack of input from others).
How do you deal with frustrations like this? Any tips to avoid them altogether?
Calling All Tacklers!
We’re looking for YOU – guest bloggers to post about your own tackles right here. If you are interested in showing off your tackles (we all need some tips and ideas!) then send a quick email to lolli.5m4m at gmail (link in the About Lolli section at the bottom of the post). Thanks for your inspiring tackles!!
Mom Bloggers — what are you tackling this week?
Link up your Tackle it Tuesday post…
Tell us what you’re up to with all your other tackles… housework and otherwise… add your link to your tackle in the Linky below!
We are Tackling Our To-Do Lists Together and making housework bloggable — Each week on Tuesday, we are posting before and after pictures of a project or trouble area that we tackled this week.
Find out more about how Tackle It Tuesday began.
The project can be little or big – whatever you want.
Basically, Tackle It Tuesday is about giving ourselves incentive, deadlines and satisfaction in tackling all our tasks — whether household or otherwise.
If you tackled a project this week, just add a comment and add your link below.
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