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> <channel><title>Comments on: Once Upon A Time There Was A Retard&#8230;.</title> <atom:link href="http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/</link> <description>Bringing Moms Together</description> <lastBuildDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 10:57:14 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1</generator> <xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" /> <item><title>By: Streaky McShorts</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-1884707</link> <dc:creator>Streaky McShorts</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 16:20:46 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-1884707</guid> <description>I think you&#039;re all retards.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you&#8217;re all retards.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: James</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-808956</link> <dc:creator>James</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 18:01:42 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-808956</guid> <description>Okay you are offended, but you do not have the right to ban any for of expression or any word. There is a reason free speech is protected by most western countries and that is if you ban even one word you set a dangerous president as you are effectively controlling an individuals right to free thought.You all have the right to protest your views for/against something, the right to try to educate others and the right to leave a theater if offended but NEVER the right to tell others what they are allowed to see.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay you are offended, but you do not have the right to ban any for of expression or any word. There is a reason free speech is protected by most western countries and that is if you ban even one word you set a dangerous president as you are effectively controlling an individuals right to free thought.</p><p> You all have the right to protest your views for/against something, the right to try to educate others and the right to leave a theater if offended but NEVER the right to tell others what they are allowed to see.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Chalkie2000</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-795623</link> <dc:creator>Chalkie2000</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2008 18:10:23 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-795623</guid> <description>Wow. You really didn&#039;t get it. Ben Stiller is not poking fun at the mentally challenged, he is poking fun at pretentious actors who would arrogantly attempt to portray a mentally challenged individual in a vain attempt to be recognized as an oscar worthy actor.Oh and also you must be aware that any attempt to publicly boycott this film will only result in a higher interest for it and will only serve to propel it to number one faster. Whereas if you had been able to shrug it off the film and offending word would have been forgotten much more quickly.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. You really didn&#8217;t get it. Ben Stiller is not poking fun at the mentally challenged, he is poking fun at pretentious actors who would arrogantly attempt to portray a mentally challenged individual in a vain attempt to be recognized as an oscar worthy actor.</p><p>Oh and also you must be aware that any attempt to publicly boycott this film will only result in a higher interest for it and will only serve to propel it to number one faster. Whereas if you had been able to shrug it off the film and offending word would have been forgotten much more quickly.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Scattered Mom</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-795459</link> <dc:creator>Scattered Mom</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2008 15:28:26 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-795459</guid> <description>You can show your support against the use of the r-word by going here and getting a button for you blog...http://www.r-word.org/</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You can show your support against the use of the r-word by going here and getting a button for you blog&#8230;</p><p><a
href="http://www.r-word.org/" rel="nofollow">http://www.r-word.org/</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: JJ</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-794606</link> <dc:creator>JJ</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2008 02:47:01 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-794606</guid> <description>Thanks for taking a stand against this wretched movie. I have been encouraged that so many have responded positively to our protest. Yes, some
people are clueless and prefer to remain that way, but most people can see the harm in hate speech if we help them to see the impact it has on those targeted by that speech.  Please keep up the good work.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for taking a stand against this wretched movie. I have been encouraged that so many have responded positively to our protest. Yes, some<br
/> people are clueless and prefer to remain that way, but most people can see the harm in hate speech if we help them to see the impact it has on those targeted by that speech.  Please keep up the good work.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Suzie</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-794342</link> <dc:creator>Suzie</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 22:45:50 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-794342</guid> <description>Thank you for the addresses! I have written a letter but the websites of Dreamworks and Paramount have no place for comments or addresses to send things to. I wonder why?</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the addresses! I have written a letter but the websites of Dreamworks and Paramount have no place for comments or addresses to send things to. I wonder why?</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Joe</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-794324</link> <dc:creator>Joe</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 22:27:31 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-794324</guid> <description>Exactly what I was afraid of the minute I learned my grandson has DS: A cruel word in many respects, insensitive and ignorant, with too many enablers of the long term misuse of the term, which I hesitate to even spell out.Joe</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Exactly what I was afraid of the minute I learned my grandson has DS: A cruel word in many respects, insensitive and ignorant, with too many enablers of the long term misuse of the term, which I hesitate to even spell out.</p><p>Joe</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Sheri</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-793008</link> <dc:creator>Sheri</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 17:30:32 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-793008</guid> <description>As a mom of a DD labeled as mentally retarded, I agree that it is inappropriate, insensitive and sad that the movie and shirts were even made.  I certainly will not see the movie and am disappointed in Ben Stiller, et al.  Though I am not really offended by the word retard, even when used derogatorily, because I know what my child is and how amazing she is despite any disabilities she has.  She will have to deal with insensitive, unaware, unintelligent people all her life, so I take every opportunity to tell her and anyone else that will listen that she is amazing (even just being alive, let alone the other things she can do).  To anyone who looks down on or mocks my daughter or anyone who is mentally challenged I say - &quot;she has a brain injury - what&#039;s your excuse?&quot;And the truth of the matter is that some will think that using that word and that plot point in that movie is funny and not making fun of the mentally challenged, because they don&#039;t get the hurtfulness of it.  They may even think, like above, that it is somehow helping the society&#039;s view of the intellectually disabled.  It is not helping - helping is respecting, accepting, loving and caring for them.Tammy, thank you for your post and I wish the best to you and your family, especially Parker.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a mom of a DD labeled as mentally retarded, I agree that it is inappropriate, insensitive and sad that the movie and shirts were even made.  I certainly will not see the movie and am disappointed in Ben Stiller, et al.  Though I am not really offended by the word retard, even when used derogatorily, because I know what my child is and how amazing she is despite any disabilities she has.  She will have to deal with insensitive, unaware, unintelligent people all her life, so I take every opportunity to tell her and anyone else that will listen that she is amazing (even just being alive, let alone the other things she can do).  To anyone who looks down on or mocks my daughter or anyone who is mentally challenged I say &#8211; &#8220;she has a brain injury &#8211; what&#8217;s your excuse?&#8221;</p><p>And the truth of the matter is that some will think that using that word and that plot point in that movie is funny and not making fun of the mentally challenged, because they don&#8217;t get the hurtfulness of it.  They may even think, like above, that it is somehow helping the society&#8217;s view of the intellectually disabled.  It is not helping &#8211; helping is respecting, accepting, loving and caring for them.</p><p>Tammy, thank you for your post and I wish the best to you and your family, especially Parker.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Chris (Nana's mom)</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-792694</link> <dc:creator>Chris (Nana's mom)</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 12:12:39 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-792694</guid> <description>Great post as usual, Tammy. My favorite line was that Parker had to fight for life- he shouldn&#039;t have to fight for acceptance. Amen.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post as usual, Tammy. My favorite line was that Parker had to fight for life- he shouldn&#8217;t have to fight for acceptance. Amen.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Susan</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-792410</link> <dc:creator>Susan</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 05:39:56 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-792410</guid> <description>@Jules, (this is Susan here... one of the writers here at 5 Minutes for Mom)Tammy and the rest of us understand very clearly that the movie intended to make fun of Hollywood actors and that &quot;the entire movie is a parody of the stupid things that actors will do to obtain a gold statuette.&quot;The problem is that while using satire to make their point about stupid actors, they used hateful language and vulgar humor to make fun of innocent people.The laughs are at the expense of the intellectually disabled as well as at actors. And the problem is that the intellectually disabled cannot afford to have those blows against them, whereas actors are at no risk of suffering.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Jules, (this is Susan here&#8230; one of the writers here at 5 Minutes for Mom)</p><p>Tammy and the rest of us understand very clearly that the movie intended to make fun of Hollywood actors and that &#8220;the entire movie is a parody of the stupid things that actors will do to obtain a gold statuette.&#8221;</p><p>The problem is that while using satire to make their point about stupid actors, they used hateful language and vulgar humor to make fun of innocent people.</p><p>The laughs are at the expense of the intellectually disabled as well as at actors. And the problem is that the intellectually disabled cannot afford to have those blows against them, whereas actors are at no risk of suffering.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: porter</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-792116</link> <dc:creator>porter</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 01:49:10 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-792116</guid> <description>Found you via Julie&#039;s link at Abbily Ever After.I&#039;m so sorry you even have to spend time and energy fighting for this.  How could the people involved in the movie not know that this is unacceptable?????As insignificant as it might be, two more people (my husband and I) won&#039;t support this movie (and that is because of your post).  I wasn&#039;t aware - thanks for the warning, I would have been disgusted if I wasted my time and money seeing such crap.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Found you via Julie&#8217;s link at Abbily Ever After.</p><p>I&#8217;m so sorry you even have to spend time and energy fighting for this.  How could the people involved in the movie not know that this is unacceptable?????</p><p>As insignificant as it might be, two more people (my husband and I) won&#8217;t support this movie (and that is because of your post).  I wasn&#8217;t aware &#8211; thanks for the warning, I would have been disgusted if I wasted my time and money seeing such crap.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Nina</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-792084</link> <dc:creator>Nina</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 01:23:00 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-792084</guid> <description>and here lies part of the problem with the world today....totally insensitive people. Immune to other&#039;s feelings, uncaring......it&#039;s just wrong.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>and here lies part of the problem with the world today&#8230;.totally insensitive people. Immune to other&#8217;s feelings, uncaring&#8230;&#8230;it&#8217;s just wrong.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Jules</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-792017</link> <dc:creator>Jules</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 00:38:52 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-792017</guid> <description>I read this post and felt the need to comment.  While what they are doing in the movie can be hurtful and is a word that shouldn&#039;t be used to demean a person - at the same time, look at some of the hate these posts have included.  People have condemned Ben Stiller as a whole when this movie literally just gives a passing reference to the Simple Jack movie.  The entire movie is a parody of the stupid things that actors will do to obtain a gold statuette.I agree that the t-shirts are ridiculous! Was the use of the phrase &#039;retard&#039; necessary? No, they probably could have used another term but the whole point was to show how someone with disdain for the challenged will use them to try to get an award.  Many actors portray mentally and physically challenged people in movies and TV.  Maybe we should be asking why we consider it acceptable that they play these roles rather than use those with the real challenges?If you take this movie for what it was really meant to be - a complete parody on the movie industry - rather than an attack on the challenged, you&#039;ll see that the message isn&#039;t an attack at all.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read this post and felt the need to comment.  While what they are doing in the movie can be hurtful and is a word that shouldn&#8217;t be used to demean a person &#8211; at the same time, look at some of the hate these posts have included.  People have condemned Ben Stiller as a whole when this movie literally just gives a passing reference to the Simple Jack movie.  The entire movie is a parody of the stupid things that actors will do to obtain a gold statuette.</p><p>I agree that the t-shirts are ridiculous! Was the use of the phrase &#8216;retard&#8217; necessary? No, they probably could have used another term but the whole point was to show how someone with disdain for the challenged will use them to try to get an award.  Many actors portray mentally and physically challenged people in movies and TV.  Maybe we should be asking why we consider it acceptable that they play these roles rather than use those with the real challenges?</p><p>If you take this movie for what it was really meant to be &#8211; a complete parody on the movie industry &#8211; rather than an attack on the challenged, you&#8217;ll see that the message isn&#8217;t an attack at all.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Hang on...</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-791988</link> <dc:creator>Hang on...</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 00:16:34 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-791988</guid> <description>The character of Simple Jack isn’t an attack on those with special needs, but rather stupid actors who play condescending versions of them as a means of getting awards. If anything, you should be thanking the people who made this film for taking to task people who exploit disabilities for trophies.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The character of Simple Jack isn’t an attack on those with special needs, but rather stupid actors who play condescending versions of them as a means of getting awards. If anything, you should be thanking the people who made this film for taking to task people who exploit disabilities for trophies.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Loralee</title><link>http://www.5minutesformom.com/4010/once-upon-a-time-there-was-a-retard/comment-page-2/#comment-791922</link> <dc:creator>Loralee</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 23:20:33 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.5minutesformom.com/?p=4010#comment-791922</guid> <description>AMEN.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>AMEN.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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